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Under the TG Umbrella and On the Continuum
Written by Tamera Sheehan
Understanding sets one free!
Why is it hard to know what Transgender means?
Transgender: It is a very complex and complicated
term. First, it is often refered to as an ‘Umbrella Term’ because under it
all, all Transgender reality and terminology are gathered. Second, this term
refers to all those whose gender self identity is not in agreement with his/her
biological sex and the gender assigned to him/her by society. Third, Transgender
is of misunderstood because many people mistakenly think that ‘Gender’ means
the same as ‘Sex’ (Sexual Genitalia) or ‘Sexual Orientation’. But it
does not! Let us take a closer look at these three terms and see how they
differ.
Gender: This involves the brain and emotions. It is
the Self-Identification and Self-Expression of each individual as he/she see
(feels internally/knows mentally0 him/herself to be. It is the role the
individual prefers to live. Gender involves what a person knows.
It ‘s foundation is between his/her ears in the brain.
This self-understanding may be in agreement or disagreement with the physical,
biological sex of the person. This, ‘Gender’ is what makes a person
‘masculine’, feminine, ‘both’ or ‘neither’.
Sexual Genitalia: This involves the X’s and Y’s
of biological chromosomal development and the physical genitalia observed at
birth. Thus, Sex involves what a person see’s between his/her legs. The
presence or absence of physical genitalia makes one either ‘male’,
‘female’, ‘both’ or ‘neither’.
Sexual Orientation: This involves the type of person
to whom one feels drawn in order to intimately share one’s life. This might be
the ‘opposite sex’, the ‘same sex’, ‘both sexes’ or ‘no sex’.
Different Types of Transgenderism
How many kinds of Transgender are there?
There are probably as many different expressions of
Transgender as there are Transgender (Gender Gifted) people. Professionals,
however, agree to recognize at least eleven different types. The firsrt three
include those who also have additionally Homosexual ‘sexual orientation’
issues. They are:
- Gays:
This is a polite term to be used when speaking of male homosexuals. Gays
seek same sex (male) partners
- Lesbians:
This is a polite term to be used when speaking of female homosexuals.
Lesbians seek same sex (female) partners.
- Bisexuals:
They are either male or female homosexuals who are attracted to both same
sex and opposite sex partners.
Do Gays, Lesbians and Bisexuals
belong?
Some would argue that these three groups of people do not
belong under the Transgender ‘Umbrella’ because they are more focused on
‘sexual orientation’ issues. Others would argue that they do belong simply
because their sexual orientation raises a number of gender issues. Besides, all
groups have found they need each other to build a voiceloud enough to be heard
by the Non-Transgender majority.
What are the eight other types of Transgenderism?
Most counselors have agreed that there are at least eight
toyes of Transgender people who have predominately Gender Issues. They also seem
to be predominately Heterosexual. The types span from Crossdresser, whose
behavior challenges society’s taboos, to the Post Operative Transsexual whose
identifcation with the opposite sex’x Gender lead him/her to become a member
of the opposite sex. Anyone diagnosed as fitting into one of these categories is
said to be suffering from ‘Gender Identity Disphoria’ (GID). Some
transsexuals, frustrated by the slowness of the transition, humorously suggest
this term says more about the medical profession than the patient. A Gender
Gifted person usually knows who he/she is. It is the counselors who seem to be
unsure, (have the dysphoria).
Crossdresser: This is a polite term for ‘Transvestite’.
Most people crossdress at sometime in their life, for many different reasons:
Entertainment, masquerade, protections, service of god, or fellowmen, espionage
and enhancing sexual foreplay. It is also the person who crossdresses to relieve
gender pressure. He/she is usually heterosexual and married and likes the
biological sex he/she is. The crossdressing is engaged more or less frequently
and is done in secret or only with others who understand. The person strives to
authentically present in the adopted gender role.
Transvestite (AKA Crossdresser): Original term for ‘Crossdresser’.
Now occasionally used to speak of Darg Queens/Kings. This person is often
homosexual and crossdresses more or less often. Crossdressing is often done in a
flamboyant manner, usually for entertainment or other public purposes. See
Drag Queen/King.
Fetishist: (AKA Crossdresser): This person likes being the
sex he/she is. However he/she uses an article of clothing instead of interacting
with a person, for erotic purposes.
Intersexual: Often called a “Hermaphrodite’, this
person has the physical, sexual manifestation, in whole or in part, of both
sexes. His/her understanding of his/her gender may or may not agree with his/her
predominate physical sexual genitalia display.
Androgyne: This person may or may not be a Hermaphrodite.
He/she chooses to either display no discernible masculine or feminie traits or
to display a mis of both. His/her self identified gender may be completely
neutral or embrace both.
Transsexual, Non Operative: This, usually a heterosexual
person, sees him/herself as a member of the opposite sex, may or may not take
the hormones of that sex and may live fully or almost fully as a member of the
opposite sex, may or may not take the hormones of that sex and may live fully or
almost fully as a member of that sex. Like all transsexuals, wearing clothing of
the opposite sex helps the person proclaim a self identified true gender. The
Non Operative Transsexual may desire Sexual Reassignment Surgery but for any
number of reasons cannot have it. Reasons could include: Health, finances &
personal preference.
Transsexual, Pre or Post Operative: Persons in these last
two categories see themselves as members of the opposite sex, take hormones and
live as a member of the opposite sex. They are either preparing to have or have
had Sexual Reassignment Surgery.
Poverty of Culture & Society
What other things complicate our understanding?
Culture/Society has constructed a dual list. Half defines
what a man should be, the other half what a woman should be. It expects everyone
to fit into one of these two categories. If the person fits society’s
expectations, he/she is recognized as ‘NORMAL’ and the advantages of society
will become available. If the person’s developmental mix lie outside the
cultural expectation then the label of ‘ABNORMAL’ is attached. The person is
thought of as ‘weird’, ‘sick’, ‘crazy’ and often becomes an object
of harrasment and a victim of violence, murder and suicide.
The Continuum? What does it teach us?
The continuum is about finding ‘Normal’ in diversity.
Nature programs each human being to participate in a theefold, sexual
development: Gender – Sexual Genitalia – Sexual Orientation. These three
roads to sexual maturity develop independently of each other. This opens
the door to an unlimited number of combinations of human sexual mixes and
identities. This, in turn, leads to a celebration of vibrant life called
‘The Continuum’. We have all been born on this continuum. Each one occupies
a unique spot and exhibits a unique combination of gifts and expressions. No
one is a throw-away. Each of us is important and each one fits, is special,
is necessary, and finally is ‘NORMAL’!
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